Monday 30 September 2013

Activating The Law of Attraction by Jack Canfield

Super Informative and Inspiring.. Jack Canfield will keep you on-track to your goals, we don't have to spend thousands to witness such treasures like Canfield! Changing the way we think about ourselves with Jack's guidence he is a genius!!

Friday 27 September 2013

Rejection: Why Do Some People Fear Rejection?

There are many fears that human beings can have and some of these are classed as real and parts of one's ability to survive and others are seen as self made and have very little to do with ones survival.
And the fear of rejection is often classed as a fear that is irrational and not based in reality. In most cases as an adult, it is unlikely that anything too harmful is going to happen if one is rejected. One's life is not likely to come to an end and they will live for another day.
But while this if often the case and nothing too harmful does take place, it is often irrelevant; because this fear can cause so many problems in someone's life. It can stop them from going towards what they truly want and need and cause them to stay where they are in life.
For these people, it is not a fear that is slightly distressing or has little impact on their life; it is something that is overwhelming. Their life is then defined and ruled by this the fear of rejection.
Frustration
On the surface this is going to have the potential to cause mild, to extreme frustration, anger and hopelessness. There will be some things in one's life that will be put off for a short time and there will be others that are forever put off.
Progress is then something that either happens on the odd occasion or it never happens. And one then ends up being stuck at a certain level of growth and development. To miss out on certain opportunities and chances could become the norm.
This could relate to some areas of one's life or cover just about every area. One is therefore unlikely to feel too empowered or connected to life and the world around them. To see other people go after what they want and get it, might be a common occurrence.
And further enhance their sense of despair and that they have no control over what they do or don't do.
Interpretation
Perhaps one thinks that they haven't got what it takes to go after what they want and that other people have something they don't have for instance. There could be people who tell them to move beyond their fear of rejection and while that sounds easier enough at an intellectual level, it is something that can be far from easy at an emotional level.
This could be a fear that is simply dismissed as just a feeling and that there is nothing more to it. And while it is intended to make one feel better about it and move beyond it, it can just result in them feeling weak and lacking something.
Genders
When it comes to women, this fear might be more acceptable than it is for men. For women it could be seen as understandable and therefore cause them to be given some kind of support or encouragement.
But for men, it could be seen as a sign or weakness and that the man lacks courage. So a woman could end up feeling that this is normal and a man could see it as something to be ashamed off.
Different Areas
And this is going to be something that can affect every area of one's life. If this doesn't relate to all areas and only relates to one, it might not be as bad. And yet at the same time, this one area could impact every other. So it won't necessarily matter how pervasive this is, what matters is how strong the fear of rejection is.
The key area is going to be relationships. And this one's relate to ones career, friends and relationships with the opposite sex. To move up in ones career or to ask for some kind of pay rise might be sabotaged through one fearing rejection.
And the same can apply to one asking for what they want and need in a relationship and speaking their truth. Perhaps one sees an attractive person that they want to talk to or who they know and would like to takes things further.
But in each in each of these situations, their fear of rejection takes over and nothing ever happens.
A Closer look
For the individual that has a fear of rejection that is overwhelming and out of balance, it is highly likely that it is more than just a feeling that they are experiencing. What it could be is a whole body experience and something that consumes them.
And when the feeling of rejection is being experienced or about to be experienced, there is going to be something more to it. Rejection is on the surface and is just one level; what is deeper than the fear of rejection, is that it will mean to this person to be rejected.
Emotional Age
Although one is physically an adult, it doesn't mean that they feel like one emotionally. And this is due to someone being emotionally stuck at a certain age or time in their life. So to look at rejection through the eyes of an adult, it becomes clear that generally nothing to troubling is going to happen.
And yet if one were to look at rejection through the eyes of a child, it is evident that rejection is a matter of life or death. To not receive the right nurturance and attention from ones caregiver, could have resulted in an experience or many experiences that were traumatic.
If these feelings were allowed to be released through their caregivers being emotional available, it wouldn't be a problem. However, if they are not dealt with, they could have stayed in one's body.
So although one physically grows, emotionally they can still feel like they did all those years ago. And whenever one is in a situation where they want something from another, these trapped feelings and emotions will rise up once again. It doesn't matter then what the other person does or doesn't do, as these feelings are inside one's body and will therefore be triggered in one way or another.
Awareness
To look at this logically, it is obvious that one is overreacting and yet if they are still carrying all this emotional pain form the past, then how else would they feel? To engage in self blame or to see oneself as lacking something, is not helpful and it is not accurate either.
They are simply acting in ways that are a consequence of what has built up within them and what needs to be realised from their body. These trapped feelings and emotions can be released with the assistance of a therapist or a healer who allows one to face them and gradually release them.
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Tuesday 24 September 2013

Letting Go, Moving On

It is time to release the past, to give up that which no longer serves our development, and to reconstruct on a fresh foundation. We're all healers and this is a good chance to transform our experiences in a way that will nurture our soul.

We should not feel guilty for producing a life of happiness. There's no demand to harm thos who have restricted us in freeing ourselves. And in a few cases, we might have to break away from a vocation, a line of work, a relationship, or even loved ones in order to produce the life we wish.

All the same, most letting go isn't typically burning up a bridge, but a great deal of the time letting go is an inwardly job: letting go may imply changing our belief formula, a way we work on emotion, or how we see life.

It is crucial to take stock of our positives and negatives before ever arriving at a decision to let go of the past. I advocate taking out a notebook and putting down lists.

Who and what is bearing upon us positively? Who and what is bearing upon us negatively? If an individual, line of work or family member --even a mate or partner-- is putting us down often, then we might be wise to handle the problem with them and/or either produce change in that relationship or put distance between ourselves and them.

One manner to let go of the past tense is

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Saturday 21 September 2013

Jim Rohn - The Day That Turns Your Life Around Discover the incredible difference one day can make! About The Day That Turns Your Life Around. Some people waste years, decades, even their entire lives waiting for that extraordinary lightning bolt that will change everything for them! But those whose lives really do change in dramatic ways can almost always trace the change back to something much simpler. One subtle, unsuspecting moment. One episode, one realization, one action. One seemingly insignificant step that put them on a completely different path ... and ultimately led them to their dreams.

Wednesday 18 September 2013

Personal Development Activities - How Gratefulness Can Bring You A Long Way

Are you grateful for the things you have in life? Counting your blessings is one of the easiest personal development activities you can ever take part in. Do not just be thankful of the big things. Give thanks even for the little things in life.

I honestly believe that it does not matter where you are in life or what circumstances you may be facing. There is always one reason to be thankful. Think of the people who did not wake up this morning. They do not have breath in their lungs. If you are alive and well, think of those people who are in critical condition in the hospitals. Like I mentioned earlier, counting your blessings is one of the easiest personal development activities you can do. Stop what you are doing and think of the things in life that you have that other less fortunate people around you do not have.

Here is something else for you to think about. Just imagine that everything you have right now was taken away from you. By everything, I refer to your friends, family, loved ones, and possessions. All you are left with are your five senses and air in your lungs. If you were to end up in such a predicament, how would you live your life? Would you lament and complain about your losses, or would you still insist on being thankful that you have your five senses and are able to breathe? It is a tough call, but if you currently have more than just that, you ought to be thankful for what you have.

Thankfulness is one of those personal development activities that will open the door for you to receive more blessings into your life. When you are grateful, you are indirectly sending signals to the universe that you are thankful for the little you have and are able to handle more. That means that you are attracting more wealth and happiness into your life. People will be attracted to you because of the joyful vibes you emit, and you could end up having more friends. As a matter of a fact, some of them may even ask you why you are always so happy. Take this chance to tell them all that you have learnt here.
To wrap this up, I want to remind you that thinking of the things you can be thankful for is one of the simplest personal development activities you can do. Start this habit today and that can bring you a long way in life.

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Sunday 15 September 2013

Conspiracy of Distraction

Most of us know more about the life of Charlie Brown than we know of Ghandi, Martin Luther King, The Buddha, Abraham Lincoln, Mozart or any other personage deserving of our attention and study.

In fact we probably have hundreds of pages of Charlie Brown stories fermenting in our heads an unfortunate result of reading the sunday funnies for two or three decades of our lives.

Do you know how the world of encyclopedia of comics describes Charlie Brown?

Are you ready for this?

The implications of this are going to rock your world.......

The world of encyclopedia of comics says that Charlie Brown is an example of "the great American un-success story" in that he fails at everything he does.

Refrencing two other Charlie Brown Bibles, Wikepedia further describes the bald boy as "a lovable loser, a child possessed of endless determination and hope, but who is ultimately dominated by his insecurities and a permanent case of bad luck, and is often taken advantage of by his peers"

Does that description hit home?

Sadly most of us have been raised to be "lovable losers" in some way. We are filled with hopes and dreams, yet our own insecurities and fears prevent us from living up to our fullest potential. Even with all my successes in life, this has applies to me-- which is why I'm so passionate about helping you move past it.

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Thursday 12 September 2013

Shark Tank's Daymond John

Bryan Elliott sits down with Shark Tank's Daymond John to go Behind the Brand to talk about how to be an entrepreneur. This video answered a lot of questions I have as a aspiring Entrepreneur.

Saturday 7 September 2013

So Grateful

If I could sum up all the important things in my life I can put it into two words, "be grateful." No matter what you have, or what you don't have, you have to be grateful for what you do have. Awake each morning by feeling grateful. From the moment you open your eyes, start off by feeling grateful that you even awoke. Life is short and we are not guaranteed another day. Then I go on to feeling grateful that you awoke in your bed. It does not matter how comfortable, or uncomfortable your bed is. I am grateful for the roof over my head, no matter if it is well reinforced or leaves and bits of trees holding it together. So many things we take for granted because they are at our fingertips.
So I continue to be grateful for the water that I use daily, and the methods it takes to get the water to me. Realizing that it takes a multitude of people to get you some bare necessities is essential, so I am grateful for the food that I eat and the labor of others to get me my food. I am also grateful for the clothes that I wear, and the people all over the world that made them.
I have found an amazing beauty that each season holds, and I am grateful to experience them. I am grateful for each and every animal that roams our great nations, they have sustained, while we are still learning.
I am grateful for you; the person that I run into at the grocery store, the cashier at the gas station, the nurses and the doctors. For all the lessons that I have learned, and to the teachers, I am forever grateful. For your loving, kind ways I am grateful and I will carry those qualities on to others.
I appreciate my mind, body, and spirit. Learning to overcome my fears and experiencing new things have taught me how to be grateful. Although I know that my body does not define who I am, I have respect for it and exercise and eat healthy. For old and new friends that have entered my life and have departed, I am deeply grateful.
I am grateful for the sun, the moon, and the stars, and for all dreams that are possible. I have been blessed with great family and friends, leaving me forever grateful.

Monday 2 September 2013

Architects Of The Mind

You have your thoughts and I have mine, but is there a soft, subtle, more universal level where our thoughts are connected? Is there a higher plane of connectedness? Buddhism suggests that advanced
meditaters can approach or merge into The Universal Mind ..

Thoughts are definitely creative. Thoughts become things. In Your Invisible Power, Genevieve Behrend says that: "The Thought Form of the Thing is already Yours as soon as you think it. Your steady recognition of this Thought Possession causes the thought to concentrate, to condense, to project itself and to assume physical form."

Now ~ that sounds rather philosophical (it was written in 1921), but closely observe your mind when you next walk into a new social situation. Aha! She's right .. thoughts take on 'form' as you place your order for a cup of coffee and a bacon and egg breakfast, with toast and mushrooms!

We used to view strange thoughts as indicative of a mental illness. But no more. These entities of 'mental illnesses' are mythical relics of our recent dark ages! The barbaric 20th Century.
Sure – there are social needs for behavioural control and regulation, 'patient management' and a host of practical concerns within family and hospital settings. But thoughts per se are the most fascinating of experiences and when repeated they become beliefs.
Behrend continues: ".. the realization that your mind really is a center through which all the creative energy and power there is, takes form."

"Ask, BELIEVING YOU HAVE ALREADY RECEIVED and you shall receive!"

So .. thoughts have a strange, creative power. When thoughts are repeated in your mind, or repeatedly delivered to you, within a training course or program, they become beliefs and even 'neuro-programs' within your brain's operating system. Here we are using a computer analogy – useful for describing subconscious processes, but not the higher neo-cortical processes of conscious creation.

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