Fail, Fail, Fail, Next Stop Is Success!!

I know it's becoming a cliche but This DID CHANGE MY LIFE at least it changed my business life, my thinking has been turned upside down, I am in network marketing and the biggest fear for me was rejection which leads to "stinkin thinkin" and hardening of the attitudes if you let it before you do let fear control your life read the book and listen to the CD's I am talking about.

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Let me explain why my thinking changed, I attended a seminar with my network marketing company and it was the usual day entertaining, exciting changes, full of energy and a guest speaker, ok nothing new here we have brought some great speakers to the UK such as Darren Hardy and Chris Gardner which were both superb but this year we had Richard Fenton and Andrea Waltz, I must confess I had never heard of them before and if you haven't they are the authors of Go For No and I cannot recommend them enough if you are in business, experienced or new or maybe thinking of starting a new venture let Richard and Andrea guide you to financial freedom and I know that is a big statement, I wish I had heard of them years ago then I would have a bigger bank statement!

Richard and Andrea are a married couple that have enjoyed laughing in the face of fear and failing on their way to the top, Richard was in sales and very good at it but there was something missing he didn't like the word NO but who does?
As he was talking it hit me like a tonne of bricks the only difference between successful people and failures is that the successful ones didn't give up and that failures thought that when they fail they think that they have hit the end of the road.

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Failure is an event not a person and when we fail we simply keep going, success is on the same path as failure it's not back the other way, we have to adopt the ant philosophy when ants hit obstacles they look to go over them, under them or around them and never turn around or give up ants are not problem concious they are solution concious, we have to be the same but the sad thing is we ALL start off not fearing rejection from the moment we can talk as a small child, when you were a small child and you asked for something off your parents and they said NO how much notice did we take of them?
Can I have a biscuit? No would cry your mother or father then what would happen? did we give up at this point? We would ask again pleeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeease No would be the reply, pretty please, No would come the answer again, pretty please with a cherry on top, Oh for god's sake just have a biscuit.

So what happened to us as we grew up and where did the fear of rejection come from? somehow we are all programmed to think that failing is bad, I can't explain it but Richard and Andrea can so let them and check out Go For No now right now.

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Ready, Set, Go: Vision in 2013

We're already in the second month in 2013, and what have you done differently? If your answer is nothing, WHY NOT?! Time is too precious, and there is so much out there for us if only we would realize it. New Years resolutions are already falling to the wayside because so many of us lack drive, and discipline. I made a promise to myself that I was going to make network marketing work! Even having had no prior experience. Learn to set some goals and stick to them, that makes all the difference.

YOU have to be determined to reach your goals, no one is going to do it for you. Once I made up in my mind that I was going to be a network marketer, I chose to be consistent. I used to be the type of person who was just all over the place... my life was full of mediocrity! So I said, "NO, Not in 2013". Everything in my life has changed in the past year... I got married, moved out of my mother's house, and found out I was pregnant. It's no longer about me, I have a family of my own now. So I had to make a choice!

If you want that dream job, perfect body, or that college degree... the only thing holding you back is yourself! I know LIFE gets in the way sometimes but don't let that be the reason you become stuck in a rut. Get up, and change your situation. BELIEVE that you can do it, and ACT on your faith!

1. Write down your goals - This is where you start. It is only a dream until you write it down, then it becomes a goal. Be realistic and as specific as possible in setting your goals.

2. Create an action plan - How will you accomplish these goals? Put together an action plan on what exactly you are going to do to make sure you reach your goal(s). Once again, be as specific as possible in doing this.

3. Benchmarks - Benchmarks are a great way to make sure that you are on the right path to reaching your goals. It's sort of like a tracking system. Use this effective tool to see how you are progressing towards your goal.

4. Vision Boards - This is a new one that I use to remind me of what I'm aiming for. It can be cut outs of inspiring words or pictures that keep you going!

Good luck, and reach those goals!

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