Showing posts with label life goals. Show all posts
Showing posts with label life goals. Show all posts

Wednesday, 10 April 2013

Are Your Goals Empty Or Full?


My sales manager gave me and each sales team member a big yellow envelope. He then asked us to write down our goals for the year, place them in the envelop, sign and seal the envelope and pass them in.
I recall this event vividly as it was my first sales meeting ever. It was 1980 and I had just joined an office equipment sales team. Being new to sales I did not know what to expect so I went with the flow. I recall the feeling of empowerment as I wrote my goals down - a feeling which lasted at least until late afternoon. To this day, however, I do not recall the goals I wrote down.
The Price Is Right
The TV game show 'The Price is Right' has been on air almost continuously since the late 1970's in one form or another. Contestants are asked to "Come on down" by the host and exhibit outbursts of emotion as they are overwhelmed, with audience encouragement, as the progressive list of prizes is unveiled and then given the opportunity to win.
What would happen if the curtain was drawn back and there was nothing there and the host said "Tonight you are going to name your own Prize".
I suspect, after the initial shock and stunned silence, the contestant might make some suggestions for the prize pool.
I, like most people on the planet, find it is much easier to let others determine goals. We wait for the curtain to be drawn back, our goal revealed and we get excited at the prospect of a large reward.
Engagement
Game shows have done well in all cultures. I can recall a few 'winners' however it is more common contestants will leave with just a small prize. Often you will see a contestant who could walk away with a reasonable prize risk it all for the chance to 'win it all'. After all, they came with nothing they may as well take the risk.
The reason this happens is the contestant has not yet taken ownership of what is already theirs. Contestants who have clearly defined outcomes, for example 'a second car for the family', will take a reasonable prize pool as they mentally take ownership of a well defined preset goal. Once a link is established with a goal they are totally engaged with it is easy to stop and take the prize.
Goal setting is probably the most talked about topic in business and sales. Nearly every business plan template I know includes a section on specific, measurable, actionable, realistic and time-framed goals, or similar. In sales goals are set for sales volume and margin often with account or territory specific goals.
Most business and sales goals, however, like New Year's resolutions, are either abandoned within the first few weeks of them being set or, if engaged with, create limits in the mind o the person the has been set for. The key reason for this is the goal is not linked by the person setting out to achieve it to one of their own goals. Even if a goal is emotionally accepted, the plan to achieve that goal needs to be set and embraced as well.
Empty goals
When challenged most people are able to rattle off a few of their life goals;
  • "I will be a millionaire by the time I am 35"
  • "I will run a triathlon"
While both of these goals are great, to achieve them you need to embrace them as your own and commit to actions to make them happen.
If I was working in a sports store and my manager said "This year everyone in this company will run a triathlon this year" most people would accept it as a goal intellectually but not engage. This is like in the game show opening the curtain and finding out what you are playing for. In this case it might not be so pleasant.
To embrace a goal you need to be fully engaged emotionally and intellectually.
  • "I will take my love of natural products, identify ways to make this into a thriving business and create a lifestyle around this where I can bank one million dollars by the time I am 35"
  • "I will set daily, weekly and monthly goals for cycling, running and swimming so I can successfully complete a triathlon before I turn 30"
Perhaps the sports store manager could engage everyone, and perhaps get a few others to join in, by saying "This year I will be doing a triathlon to support the Children's hospital. If anyone want to join me the store will support you with all the equipment you need. I would also encourage others to support this cause by supporting this important cause". Leadership, allowing everyone to engage in a personal goal in the best way they can without feeling guilty.
The difference is the new goals are personal and easily embraced emotionally and intellectually. They allow for setbacks and mixing up of short term goals to ultimately achieve what your main goal.
From that first sales meeting I learned the power released in the process of setting goals and the importance of creating goals. It is in embracing the goal as your own, creating the daily, weekly and monthly target and measuring the small successes where he real power of goals lie.
Today's question and actions
Who is setting your goals? Are you in charge or are those around you setting default goals? Here are two things you can do to take charge today;
1. Identify four or five things which you are passionate about. These could be simple things like "I want my son to talk more with me about what is going on in his life" or challenging like "I will climb Mount Everest". Whatever it is you need to be fully engaged with the goal and really want it to be so.
2. Take some time to plan out what you need to do every day, week and month to make this a reality. Make at least three calls with you son each week. Walk further up the Devil's staircase each day.
Setting goals is great. It is setting goals you are fully engaged with which will change your life.
Have a great week!

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Monday, 18 March 2013

Setting Life Goals - 3 Tips To Write Effective Plans For Goal Setting


Setting life goals has been one of the most well known secrets of highly effective people, and being able to do that effectively should be one of the skills you ought to aim to master in this life.
So what is the main secret behind setting effective goals for your life? The answer may surprise you, but it's just the simple idea of writing out a plan.
Plans are important in setting life goals because they serve as blueprints, scripts, or as maps. And you know how helpful they can be used as guides, especially if you're lost and just wandering through life aimlessly.
A plan also helps to track your progress in life, and helps you to decide if changes are necessary.
Then again, not everyone knows how to craft up an effective plan when setting life goals. If you're having trouble too, then the following 3 steps would be able to help you.
They are generally regarded as the most basic steps you need to apply when setting life goals, so make sure you have them in check.
Step 1 - Make It Step By Step
Instead of setting your life goals in a messy chunk that has no order, you'll need to plan it in a step by step fashion. That has been regarded by many experts as the best way of setting life goals.
For a start, just write down what you have in mind. Don't even think about edits for now. Write down all that you want to achieve for now.
Also, write them straight to the point. Don't write long statements for now.
Steps 2 - Go Through Your Plan Again.
Step 1 is just the start to help you put everything down on paper without giving much consideration. But from step 2 onwards, you need to take a close look at your plan and constantly ask yourself this question at each step of your plan.
"Will this take me towards my goal, or further away from it"
Don't rush this process. Slowly go through them one by one, and eliminate those that do hinder you from accomplishing your goals. Only keep the necessary ones.
Tip 3 - Expand On Your Important Steps
Chances are, when you're setting life goals, there are steps you put in that can be broken down into sub-steps. And in this step, you'll need to examine all your steps left from step 2 and see if there are any you can expand on.
The reason for this is because small steps give you the clarity of what needs to be done in order to achieve a bigger objective. And if a step proves too big to take, you'll get stuck on your goal.
And once this step is done, what you'll end up with is a great plan that is detailed enough for you to take consistent action towards your life goals. And that's setting life goals effectively in a nutshell.
And if you'd like to learn more tips that can help take your life beyond your wildest dreams after setting life goals, I know just the right resource for you.
It's a resource written by a self made millionaire, and you can find that resource at SuccessSwitch.com. It helped me, and I'm sure it can help you more than just setting life goals, but actually taking them many steps beyond your wildest imagination

http://ezinearticles.com/?Setting-Life-Goals---3-Tips-To-Write-Effective-Plans-For-Goal-Setting&id=7547723